Safety essentials for high end escorts

How to ensure your safety as a high-end escort

It's one of the most frequently asked questions during interviews with applicants who want to work as an escort at our escortservice: How do you guarantee my safety? Honestly; it's not something we can 100% guarantee. But we can for 99,9%.

In addition to answering such a frequently asked question, we feel this information may be vital to aspiring high-end escorts who wish to pursue this line of work elsewhere. Therefore we decided to provide general advice in this blog. 

How to stay safe during bookings as an escort

In the world of high-end escorting, your safety is paramount. While each encounter is designed to be enjoyable and memorable, it’s crucial to prioritize your well-being by taking practical precautions. Just as a pilot checks all systems before takeoff, an escort should be equally prepared before every appointment to ensure a smooth and secure experience.

Safety guidelines in the escort industry are like the essential toolkit for any professional: indispensable and reliable. These guidelines not only protect you but also give you the confidence to focus on what truly matters during your work; offering a memorable and enjoyable experience for both you and your client. The key to a successful and safe encounter lies in preparation and the ability to trust your instincts.

Building a foundation of safety through client verification

Over the years, we’ve maintained a spotless safety record, with no incidents compromising the well-being of our escorts. This achievement is largely due to our rigorous pre-booking checks. However, there are additional measures you can take to further enhance your security.

Whether you’re working independently or with an agency, ensuring your safety starts with thorough preparation. This includes vetting clients carefully, understanding your boundaries, and establishing clear communication about your services and managing expectations. If you are with a reputable agency, they will likely handle much of this groundwork, such as screening clients, securing advance payments, and educating clients on appropriate behavior. However, regardless of your affiliation, it’s essential to adopt personal safety practices that will help you maintain your privacy and security.

Essential safety practices for escorts

Here are some key practices to keep in mind:

When arriving at a client’s location, take a moment to survey the surroundings before knocking on the door. A simple step to the side can help protect your anonymity and prevent any unwanted photos through the peephole. In today’s digital age, even a harmless-looking laptop left open on a desk could pose a risk. Politely asking a client to close it ensures that there are no surprises lurking behind the screen.

Discretion is crucial when it comes to your arrival and departure. Avoid parking directly in front of the client’s residence or hotel. Instead, opt for a location a few streets away, keeping your movements subtle and less noticeable and your vehicle and license plate private.

After a successful booking, it may be tempting to accept a ride home, but a safer bet is to be dropped off at a nearby (train)station or another public location. This small step ensures your safety without compromising your professional boundaries.

Prepare for the worst case scenario

In any profession, it’s important to be prepared for unexpected situations. Escorts should always have a plan in place for emergencies. In case of an emergency, your first call should always be to 112. However, for non-urgent situations where you still need additional security. If you ever feel threatened or uncomfortable, your first step should be to remove yourself from the situation. Having a trusted contact who knows your whereabouts can be invaluable, and consider using a safety app with a panic button feature that allows you to quickly alert someone if you need help. This added layer of security can provide peace of mind, knowing that you have a quick way to call for assistance if needed.

While sharing a drink might be part of the evening, it’s important to manage your alcohol intake carefully. Staying in control allows you to remain alert and respond to any situation with clarity. If your client consumes alcohol or drugs, be extra cautious, and don’t hesitate to leave if you sense the situation becoming unsafe.

During an appointment, your handbag isn’t just an accessory, it’s a safeguard. Keep your personal items such as your phone, wallet, ID, and keys with you at all times. Even if you step away to the restroom, take your bag with you to prevent any unauthorized access to your belongings.

Maintaining your privacy

One of the most important aspects of safety is protecting your personal information. Never disclose details such as your real name, date of birth, or social media accounts to a client. Even the most well-meaning clients can sometimes overstep boundaries, so it’s crucial to maintain a strict separation between your personal and professional lives.

When it comes to the financial aspect of your work, it’s best to handle payments at the start of the date. This ensures that the less glamorous part of the evening is out of the way, allowing you to focus on the rest of the appointment. If a client forgets to provide payment upfront, gently remind them before the date progresses.

Your phone should be set to silent during the appointment, but ensure that you have a quick way to reach out to a trusted contact if needed. Keeping an emergency contact on speed dial can make all the difference in a critical situation. In addition, make sure important numbers, such as that of your agency or other trusted person who know where you are, are added to your favorites and can reach you even if your phone is on silent.

Trusting your instincts

Your instincts are your most valuable tool. If something feels off, whether it’s the presence of unexpected individuals or an uneasy feeling, trust your gut and take action. Excuse yourself from the situation as soon as possible, using a pretext like needing to retrieve something from your car, and leave.

It’s also important to stay vigilant throughout the date. If you notice a client becoming overly intoxicated or using drugs, consider leaving before the situation escalates. Remember, you often have the power to de-escalate a situation by redirecting the conversation or using humor to diffuse tension.

Physical safety is just as important as emotional well-being. Ensure that any protective measures, such as condoms, are used correctly and check them regularly. Avoid situations where you might be restrained or blindfolded unless you can easily free yourself if needed.

Conclusion

By incorporating these safety practices into your routine, you not only protect yourself but also enhance your professionalism and confidence. Whether you’re working independently or with an agency, your safety is the top priority. Stay vigilant, trust your instincts, and remember that your well-being comes first. Enjoy your work, stay safe, and always know that there are resources and people ready to support you whenever needed.